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I don't wear the galsses anymore, and as you can see, my wife is younger and better looking than me.....lol.

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    Kat21

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    10/27/09

    thx for the reply! i will for sure find new doctors:)

    10/27/09

    Reply from hmssws:

    The most important thing is that you trust them.....They can't help you unless you do, yet trust is so hard for us......Good luck...
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    gypsy

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    03/15/09

    gosh no I never thought you would harm others no matter how bad a space youre in. I hope you didnt think that I thought that! Im glad you can let it go.. sometimes its all you can do eh...

    take care

    gypsy


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    03/15/09

    Reply from hmssws:

    Nope.....I never thought that....I was just amazed that my wife could think that of me....
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    gypsy

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    03/14/09

    Dear Hank, I have a different slant on that... I try never to assume what my partner is thinking or where he is headed because people are constantly evolving and assumptions can cause alot of grief and misunderstanding. People are so complex I try not to assume I know what theyre thinking even though from body language and cues I know what state theyre in ie. agitated, bored, happy etc... but I dont assume to know what has caused that in them. Well I try not to lol.

    Your partner knows about your fear of being alone and youve recently lost your job and have been in a bad place for weeks..your long lasting marriage is in a state of...? . I would be worried about my partner too... would it be safe to assume you have no breaking point?

    I dont know... these are just my thoughts...

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    03/15/09

    Reply from hmssws:

    And that is almost exactly what she said....I have never reached my breaking point yet.....when I do, I feel confident that it will not include harming others.....I am not argueing here.....just letting you know that.....I think I have enough self pity, to be able to transfer that to others and wish to do no harm.....But, in spite of my being offended by what she said, I can let it go.....I think it is time....
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    gypsy

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    03/14/09

    Im not sure I understand. Disappointment in what? That she doesnt know you better? Or she supposedly doesnt think you have what it takes to get through this? Or...?





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    03/14/09

    Reply from hmssws:

    Strictly dissapointment that after 18 years she wouldn't know me better than that......Oh well......I'm OK.....
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    hazardscomet

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    03/13/09

    A couple of my songs are posting onto facebook now. But I'm pretty sure it's gonna take a while. PEACE
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